Should I use 401k money to get on my feet?
I am getting divorced and we currently own a home. I am not going to be able to afford the house and will need to get an apartment and some basic furniture. I have already taken money out of my 401k as a loan. I am 36 and contemplating taking a withdrawal for the remainder (which really isn't even that much, like 5k) of the money so that I can get an apartment for myself and my son. I know there are huge penalties etc... but is it really that bad to do? I can't get a loan because my name is on the mortgage. We are doing a short sale on the house because of the housing market. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!