To Accept or Not Accept a Gift
It's the Christmas season, so yesterday I spent the day making cookies which were then wrapped in a decorative tin that I gave to a male co-worker as a thank you for help done at work and for the occasional ride home from work.
I was quite surprised when he handed me a little gift bag in return. We exchanged hugs and a wished each other a Merry Christmas. However, once I entered my home and opened my gift I found a $100 gift card to the local mall.
I found the gift to be very thoughtful and genuine, but then realized that a man other than my husband had just spent $100 on me. I hid the gift card in my purse (what would my husband think and is it possible this co-worker wants something more than just friendship?).
The gift card came with a note that expressed his "appreciation for my effort and hard work" and wished my "family a wonderful Christmas filled with peace, joy, health, and happiness".
Should I worry? Is this an unacceptable gift, and if so how do a graciously return it to him?