Does friendship trump boyfriend?
Ok, well, I don't exactly have a boyfriend. But, you know how there are those guys who are more like boyfriend material than guy friend material? I was wondering if my guy friends trumped my "boyfriend possibilities"? I mean, my guy friend has been there for me for life, since I was about 6 we've known each other. Its weird. We both went through the awkward stage of " Maybe I like her" and all that jazz, but its not like that anymore. We know our boundaries, yes they seem grey at times but there is a limit. We are just, buddies. But, now I question my judgement. See, my guy friend and I rarely see each other, so, we talk on the phone occasionally. Eventually, we always end up on the girlfriend/boy friend topic. It's a bit odd and uncomfortable, but its got to hit eventually. Anyway, I finds myself really down when he has a girlfriend, and I never think she's good enough for him. Usually I'm right and it doesn't work out for them. What's really bad is that when he is a bit disappointed about his lost girlfriend, I am much happier that he doesn't have a girlfriend. I don't have a clue why. Its kind of annoying, but I always feel relief when he is single or his girlfriend sucks. Don't get me wrong, Im happy when he's happy just not in that instance.