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  • Mar 13, 2008, 07:02 PM
    jenica-love-u
    Look what he did
    He broke up with me then told my best guy friend that he is going out with my best friend!
    What should I do now?:(
  • Mar 13, 2008, 07:08 PM
    talaniman
    Cut all the lying losers out of your life, and replace them with some good, caring people.
  • Mar 13, 2008, 07:12 PM
    jenica-love-u
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jenica-love-u
    he broke up with me then told my best guy friend that he is going out with my best friend!
    what should i do now?:(

    Should I be mad at my friend
  • Mar 13, 2008, 07:13 PM
    JBeaucaire
    Learn NOW that there are times you put yourself first. This is one of those times. Reject every attempt your heart puts up to make you think about this guy as being worth any more of your time. Reject.

    Celebrate your freedom. He could've started dating her AND stayed with you at the same time. Wouldn't that have been lovely?

    As for your friend, don't worry about. He hasn't actually done anything wrong, so perhaps your relationship was simply over and he realized it before you did. Unless he's an absolute horrid person, leave it alone. Let her make her own mistakes.

    Besides, a REAL friend wouldn't be the next person to date your ex.
  • Mar 13, 2008, 07:21 PM
    jenica-love-u
    I should just hang out with my other friends and don't think about it! Right ?
  • Mar 13, 2008, 09:51 PM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jenica-love-u
    should i be mad at my friend

    She isn't your friend.
  • Mar 13, 2008, 10:00 PM
    ISneezeFunny
    ... so you want advice on how to get revenge... to destroy their lives... or what?
  • Mar 14, 2008, 02:13 PM
    jenica-love-u
    I just want to be happy that's all.
  • Mar 14, 2008, 02:16 PM
    bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE
    I suggest forgetting about it and moving on. The more you contemplate about it, the more vengful and angry you'll get. All it takes is yourself to be happy. You most definitely don't need that creep to fulfill the emptiness you may feel.
  • Mar 14, 2008, 02:43 PM
    peggyhill
    I think this guy sounds like a jerk and you are better off without him. Try to stay busy, go out with friends, whatever it takes to keep your mind off him. As far as your 'best friend' dating him, I think a true friend wouldn't date your ex, at least not this soon and not without asking you first. Hang out with your other friends, because it doesn't sound like she has your best interest at heart. Chances are if he was a jerk to you, he'll probably be a jerk to her. She should know better, but some people have to learn the hard way.

    I hope you feel happier soon! :)
  • Mar 14, 2008, 06:06 PM
    talaniman
    There are better things, and people, out there for you.
  • Mar 14, 2008, 07:17 PM
    jenica-love-u
    Thanz
  • Mar 14, 2008, 07:33 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jenica-love-u
    should i be mad at my friend

    He broke up with you so he is not the issue, but to go out with your friend is a bit cheesy on his part and hers. She is not your friend.
  • Mar 25, 2008, 02:33 PM
    jenica-love-u
    I found someone new . He is very nice!

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