Here's my take as a porn peruser in a committed relationship.
- Yes, there are things that I would change about my girlfriend's appearance. Specifically I'd love it if she got a set of DD implants. It's not happening, and I'm good with that, as it's her body and occasionally she lets me touch it.
- I watch porn mainly for the situations and picture myself with her performing said activity. Yes it helps if the person in the clip is attractive as it helps if I lose focus, but it all comes back to her.
- I love my girlfriend and have no plans to run off with "Candy Dejour" (fake name don't bother) as I feel largely fuffilled by our relationship, even if I have to barter for "special" events.
If you're disturbed with what you saw, ask him about it, if it doesn't involve pee, poo, blood, animals, or kids consider trying it, if it does.....RUN!