Custody of 2 children where my ex-husband is the assistant to court judge
I have 2 children in Syracuse, NY, and I want to know if there's anything else that I can do. My son is almost 15 yrs old, and my daughter is 12 yrs old. My exhusband got with an assistant family court judge a month after I left, and was committing adultery because we weren't separated until 6 months later, and divorced a year after that.
He has gotten everything he asked for, and I've been rejected for everything. Surprise, surprise. It's been so unfair and bias since day one, and I feel helpless. He also gets the most he can from my salary. I moved away (Virginia) because I couldn't stand him sitting in front of the house way before he was suppose to pick up the children, my ex showing up places I'm at with the children, my ex's wife taking my son out of school without me being able to speak with him, etc.
My son ended up in a psych ward recently, and I STILL wasn't allow an opportunity to change the situation.
I've been reading that the age in Virginia is 14 yrs old where a child can decide, but in another article said the age is 18 yrs old.
Does anyone have any ideas, thoughts, comments, etc.
Erin Brockovich of child custody-I want to be able to see both my children
I have 2 children. My daughter is 12 & son 15 yrs now. My ex will let my daughter (12) come to me, but won't let my son, to "visit." My daughter, son & I all agree it's wrong. They live in Syracuse, NY and I live in Reston, VA. My ex is married to an assistant to a family court judge in Syracuse, NY. Can anybody help me? I've spent $40K in the last 11 years with 5 lawyers, and they never filed a venue... Erin Brockovich of family court where are you?
Which law can I get jurisdiction changed to Virginia for prejustice and false.
I've filled a change of venue when I received the advice from here. I should have filled a change of jurisdiction because I would try getting the jurisdiction to change from Syracuse, NY to Fairfax, VA since my ex-husband's wife is the assistant to another family court judge, and I've written to higher courts and got no wheres, and therefore I know I won't get a fair trial in NY. I never knew I could have brought this to another court system. I would have done that as soon as I knew.
I was informed for the custody I would have to get Syracuse, NY to release themselves from jurisdiction, which they never would, but I was advised that the support can be heard in Fairfax, VA but I can't find the law it states that Fairfax can have jurisdiction since all prior preceedings were in Syracuse, but I have paperwork where they lied on all the financial documents, and he tranferred all his assets to his wife that he married right before the proceedings.
I've been advice that I can bring the custody into another court house in New York but I've lived in Fairfax county for almost 5 years, and I've written to the higher courts, and know I won't get a fair hearing.
I was advised that I can get the support hearing in Fairfax (Virginia) but I can't find the law. Do you know which law I can get Fairfax to have jurisdiction over the support for prejustice even thought there was a decision made in Syracuse for the full support without taking into consideration all his assets, all my debt and all the transportation I've been paying for over the last 5 years, etc. I've had to stop the visitation because I'm in major debt and can't afford the transportation costs anymore. I thought what is the most important thing in determining the support is the children?
My hearing is on June 30th at 130pm, and any help would be greatly appreciated. I have hired another lawyer and he's working on trying to figure how out Fairfax could have jurisdiction but he advised me to ask other lawyers. Thank you again for all and any help.
Laws supporting notice of appeals for child custody and child support
I filed a change of venue, and waiting to hear whether it has been approved or not. It should be approved based upon bias due to my ex-husband's wife is the assistant to a supreme court judge that sits in the same building of where all my child custody and child support has been for 10 years, including several errors intentional or not intentional. While I'm waiting for an answer, I wanted to find the laws that supports an appeal of custody and support. I think I'm OK for the custody since I filed the change of venue within the 30 day time of the last dismissal of my petition. I took action and needed a change of venue first before a notice of appeal. The child support order wasn't within 30 days but the original order was based upon falsified information and bias judge. Do you know what NYS law I would refer to supporting the appeal to the original support order?
Also I filed the change of venue with the Appellate Supreme court, which they accept. Now I'm not sure which court level I would file my notice of appeals for temporary child custody, custody and support? Do I file the notice of appeal to the Appellate Supreme Court as well?
The change of venue was easy to find on the internet but I'm having a really hard time finding laws to support filing an appeal outside of the timeframe stated on the orders even though it was bias and numerous errors occurred.