Is it OK to talk to ex-boyfriend?
My current boyfriend “P” and I have been together for more than a year now. Everything is going great, minus the unexpected arguments that I am sure every couple goes through.
My ex-bf "M" and I do keep in touch but it’s very rare, and it’s ALL innocent. Maybe once every two weeks. He’s 3,000 miles away across the country and has a girlfriend of his own. I was with him for 3 years so he is a big part of my past, and we have history together. We ended on a very good note and are able to give each other advices on our current relationships, financial struggles, and life’s general occurrences. I want to tell Paul that I do, but at the same time scared to do so.
Is this wrong for me to keep in touch with my ex, “M?” I feel that I am doing something wrong but I know if I ever told “P” that we do keep in touch, though it may be VERY seldom, I know he’d freak out but I don’t know to what limit. “P” doesn’t keep in touch with any of his ex’s because his bond with me is the first “long term, serious” relationship he’s had and all of his past relationships have ended on a bad note, and all of them were short-term.
Please advise.