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  • Aug 19, 2009, 11:17 PM
    plonak
    Crotch watching
    Ok,

    So I have a question that is purely curiosity. I am female and sometimes when I talk to a guy and he's across from me on a chair or something, I subconsciously look down at his crotch and catch myself afterwards and I don't know why I do it!

    I even did it when I interviewed with my current boss, I find him very attractive but at the time I was too nervous to notice he was cute but I still looked at his crotch and I caught myself and felt really embarrassed,. I think he might have noticed it too.. I don't see how he couldn't

    Does anyone know why this happens? Honestly it's subconscious.. has this happened to any girls? Share your story.. guys share your stories too if you have noticed girls doing it to you.
  • Aug 19, 2009, 11:20 PM
    hheath541

    I've actually caught myself doing that, but not usually to guys. I find myself looking at girls' crotches just as much as I look at their boobs. I've also caught myself looking at guys' crotches, but usually only when they're wearing pants that fit tighter than normal.
  • Aug 19, 2009, 11:22 PM
    artlady

    I have done it before in a casual situation where a guy is laying back and you can't help but see the bulge but to always look ,I never did that.
    Hay, guys do the boob thing so I don't see that it's a big deal unless you get busted at it.It might give the wrong impression.
  • Aug 20, 2009, 06:55 PM
    plonak

    Yes I wouldn't say I always do it.. but I just wonder why it sometimes happens, like at my interview.. apparently it didn't effect my getting the job, so I guess my boss thinks it's a normal thing.. and he's not a sleaze by the way.

    Anyone else?
  • Aug 20, 2009, 07:04 PM
    Catsmine
    Sauce for the goose, plonak.

    Do guys ever notice your eyes?
  • Aug 21, 2009, 10:09 PM
    plonak
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Catsmine View Post
    Sauce for the goose, plonak.

    Do guys ever notice your eyes?

    Hehe not sure what "sauce for the goose" means, I'm pretty naïve :o

    But I really don't do it that often, and sometimes I think they notice because they are talking directly to me.. so there is no way they couldn't notice! I'm just curious if there was a psychological meaning behind it..
  • Aug 22, 2009, 12:00 AM
    KISS

    Always watch if they are wearing "cutchie cutter" shorts.
  • Aug 22, 2009, 03:02 AM
    Catsmine
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by plonak View Post
    Hehe not sure what "sauce for the goose" means, im pretty naive :o

    An old old old platitude says "What's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander." In case you didn't know, a gander is a male goose.
  • Aug 22, 2009, 06:40 AM
    stevetcg
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Catsmine View Post
    Sauce for the goose, plonak.

    Do guys ever notice your eyes?

    She has eyes? ;)
  • Aug 22, 2009, 07:22 AM
    excon
    Hello P:

    Well, I for one, am a studious crotch watcher... The only difference between ME and everybody else, is I admit it. Oh yeah. I don't let a butt get by me either.

    excon
  • Aug 28, 2009, 07:59 AM
    LJDK

    I noticed it a lot. Women staring at my crotch. Especially at the office. I find it irritating after about 4 minutes of conversation and every few seconds they have a peak or two and then go all silent as if forgetting what they were saying.
  • Aug 28, 2009, 08:11 AM
    smoothy

    Doesn't bother me at all... they are free to look. Wife might take exception if they want to fondle however.
  • Aug 28, 2009, 08:18 AM
    Justwantfair
    My partner is a butt watcher, whether it's subconscious or not, he still does it. Doubt there is any changing that, although I am working to make him more conscious of it. ;)

    I don't find that I have ever really done more than a once over myself, unless there is truly something eye catching there.

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