Check yoself before you wreck yoself!
I have seen some recent posts where long-term members have extremely chastised the OPs. I will not go into detail to which threads these are. But let us all remember that the OPs are here to get some help.
In some instances they are in extreme pain, yet they post in other areas information to the contrary. These members are reaching out for help, yet what I have seen happening is that they are getting called out and their conflicting posts are getting picked apart.
Let us all remember that in times of turmoil we all can have conflicting feelings. These people are here for help, not criticism.
There was a thread in the Bereavement section (it has been removed so don't try to look for it) that really hit me hard. I realize that sometimes we have to look up other posts from members to get a whole and complete story, but remember that feelings, at times, are conflicting and that what they post in one thread may not be what they are feeling in another thread.
In the end, if you are not here to help people, keep your thoughts to yourself. I am just as guilty as the next person is, but this particular thread was extremely hurtful. Not only to the OP, but to anyone going through what that OP was experiencing.
Please, I ask you, remember what we are here for!