If you was to cheat on your boyfriend would you tell him or keep it a secret. This is just a question to find out how many different answers I get. My girlfriend and I are happy togather and she would tell me if she was cheating on me. I know that for a fact.

Truth hurts but it's better thαn hαving α big fαt hαiry elephαnt in the room. I'd go with honesty.

Let me turn the tables on this a little bit...

Worrying about whether one would keep it a secret, could mean that person is nowhere near being ready for a committed relationship.

I would tell him.

I would tell him the truth, if you are in a relationship there is no point in lying to each other.

I would most definetely tell the truth.

If you can't tell the trueth then you don't deserve another let alone the one you have

I would tell him. Although I wouldn't do it anyway, if we were having problems and if I was attracted to other guys I would end it before I do anything.

Having been a teenager once in the dinosaur era, I did make that mistake and not tell and he found out. I swore I would never ever do that again and I have kept that promise - mostly because I vowed never to cheat on anyone. It is far better to find out why I would want to cheat and discuss it with my bf/partner, etc. If it is entirely my problem, I need to correct or move on.

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Originally Posted by chipmunk2921

If you was to cheat on your boyfriend would you tell him or keep it a secret. This is just a question to find out how many different answers i get. My girlfriend and i are happy togather and she would tell me if she was cheating on me. i know that for a fact.

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Probably not tell them because girls cheat on their boyfriend to just have someone on the side and if their boyfriend was to find out they would probably dump them.

It depends.If he was a playa, I wouldn't tell him.I know that's mean, but he would deserve it. If he was a nice guy but you weren't into him, I would say that I am really sorry but I think it is wrong to like sum1 else when you are already in a relationship, so I am sorry but I don't want to hurt you when you can get sum1 all to yourself.
If I had made a mistake, I would have to look at the relationship, decide if I liked the guy and he liked me enough to forgive me.If not, I would just tell him we shouldn't be together.

I wouldn't tell him, the reason I'm cheating is to get away from him. But I also wouldn't cheat, if I felt like I wanted or should cheat then I would get out of the relationship

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Originally Posted by Sentra

Let me turn the tables on this a little bit...

Worrying about whether or not one would keep it a secret, could mean that person is nowhere near being ready for a commited relationship.

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I agree with you. Thanks for all your posts.

Not tell him.cause what would be the point of going out with him in the first place if your going to go tell it to your boyfriend.

If you really cared and loved that person you firstly wouldn't do it, but if you did, you have to tell them... its not fair on that person.
No one wants to be cheated on, being male or female.

I wouldn't cheat on my partner. If I did it would mean I didn't love him, so of course I would tell him.

I don't know if I got the question well, but to me it seems obvious...

If I have a boyfriend and I have to cheat... I'll make sure I'll break up with my boyfriend first. :rolleyes:

But if I want to keep my boyfriend, I won't cheat.

I don't think I'd tell him at first because I'd be nervous he'd flip, but everyone knows I can't keep secrets... so yes, I'd spill the beans!!

I would be honest - I do not understand how people live with dishonesty.

There is nothing worse than lies.

I've talked to people online and texed people. I lied and said I wasn't doing anything. He took my cell and found out. Almost broke off our engagedment and relationship. He was hurt. I was too, because he clearly wasn't making me happy. But because I love him I stopped don't want to lose a good thing. I have my own problems, but lying was always the biggest. I do lie, but because I don't feel like getting chewed out. Most of the reason I am who I am because of my parnet's being bad one's. But my fiancé is helping me day by day to become more the person I should be.