I'm looking for some advice please. I like a guy at work called Mark. A large group of us, including Mark, have lunch together every day. Mark is very sweet and shy and always friendly to everyone. He is very popular and everyone likes him. He blushed when we met first and also blushed when I caught him looking at me later on. Sometimes when I pass his desk I will stop and talk to him. He always looks surprised and delighted when I do. A few of us went out for drinks a few days ago. At one stage it was just the two of us chatting. I finished answering a question he asked me and he just kept staring into my eyes. I asked him if he liked me and he said yes. He also said it would be good if we could hang out together sometime. We didn't get to talk privately after that. The next few days we were never on our own. Today I ran into him in the kitchen and he asked me if I had enjoyed the night out but he didn't say anything about our private conversation. He just stared into my eyes when I said I had fun. He was dying to know if I remembered our conversation. He was very nervous and didn't notice that the bottle of water he was filling had overflowed. He talks quietly in general but when he talks to me his voice goes deeper and more gentle and he moves carefully. He is a very big man, 6' 5" and broad. I am 5' 1" and slim. It's almost as if he's afraid he'll step on me by accident! I think he likes me but he's too shy to pursue it unless he has drank alcohol! I suppose my question is this: Should I just leave things as they are and let him pursue me at his own pace or should I let him know that I remember the conversation and that I like him too. I think like most quys in work these days he's afraid to pursue it in case of being accused of harassment. My plan tomorrow is to talk to him if I can get him on his own and tell him I remember our conversation and let him know that I would like to hang out with him as he suggested if he still feels that way. My worry is that he will feel like I'm chasing him and change his mind. Maybe I could say I enjoyed our conversation and ask if he wants to continue it? I would love some advice on this if anyone has any please.