Originally Posted by lilliandiana
Did he say: "Gee, that can't be me"? No, he said he would try. HOW?????? I asked him today, "does your wife love you? Are you helping yourself to the love of 2 women?' He said he guessed she did. In other words, yes, she does, but he is still entitled to both of us.
But he isn't----- because it is too painful for the one who doesn't have the ring and the kids.
But instead of cutting my losses I obsess about WHY can't he love me? I want him to. And I feel there is something just off about me because he doesn't.
I am such a mess.:(