How come single men fall for emtional games from single women but not married ones?
Okay this was brought up in another post by Wildcat. I didn’t want to take away from the original poster but this has been on my mind all day and I just want to get some other feedback on it. The OP was a mistress and as WC points out we’ve been seeing a lot of that here lately. Here’s what WC said..
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Originally Posted by Wildcat21
How do so many women get mixed up wit hmarried men????
Not many guys get mixed up with married women - AND if they do they know it's just for sex.
I HAVEN'T READ ONE POST here about a guy who is mixed up mentally, confused because he is dating a MARRIED women.
EXACTLY! Wildcat is dead on correct. But my question is why? It almost seems like it should be the other way around.
I don’t think it’s any secret that women are better at reading, using, and applying emotions then men are. Women are emotional and use that to their advantage over men. This board is field with men who get caught up being played by women and there emotional games. I know I myself have been caught more than once. I am also a highly sensitive male.
Yet I would never get involved with a married woman. Even for me and some of the situations I’ve been in where I was thinking emotionally and not rationally I realize there is a limit. Marriage is a limit.
So I guess my question is how can such a large number of women who should be more emotionally aware of a married man’s intentions because of their higher acuteness to emotional games and situations get caught up in this problem?
Then on the flip side, why do men, quite honestly like myself very emotional, and some of the other posters here who are just not as emotional as me but still men. In other words they have no advantage over reading a woman emotionally like a woman can read a man. Why are men not caught up in this situation where the women is cheating and he is blinded so much he can’t see what’s going on. Because if you look at our male posters, many of them are blinded by a woman’s emotional games and even know she’s having relations with other guys but they act like the mistresses do. The only difference is their isn’t a marriage involved.
God I hope this makes some kind of sense. In my brain it makes perfect sense, or at least my question does but I’m not sure I’m translating it here well.
In short my question is why isn’t this the other way around, why do emotionally “scarce” men not fall for this and emotionally “intelligent” women do on such a great number?