I was wondering where the best place to find an acting coach and singing lessons would be? I live in buffalo and I'm not sure if there is much of that around here. Oh and how do you find an agent?

I think an agent would be putting the cart before the horse but I don't know how talented you are at this point either.
New York City should have plenty of agents.

Here is a search engine for your area that might be helpful

singing lessons in buffalo new york - Google Search

The school that was in the movie Save The Last Dance is the best talent school you can go to I can't seem to remember the name of it.

That school is julliard, it's the best in the country... one day maybe I'll go there but I've got time.

Yeah I knew I would recognize it if I saw it.
Make sure you let us know when you have a record out. :D

Yes, as you have mentioned, you do have time...

In the meantime it would be best to hone your skills. Some of the best teachers for voice or even acting might even just be operating out of their home. To find them, I would suggest talking to music/theater teachers who teach at the high school or college/university level.