Last year I met a guy online. We hit it off well and went on 3 dates. I had to friendzone him because I wasn't ready for a relationship, frankly I was really immature. And at the time I felt no sexual attraction towards him. BUT I didn't find him unattractive either, I could see how handsome he was. I did really love his personality though, kind, gentle and supportive. The kind you rarely see nowadays.

Now I am heavily regretting my decision and feel so stupid to let someone great go, I think we would be amazing together. Something has just changed in my brain. I also hate myself so much as I deleted him off social media because he didn't wish me on my birthday and so I assumed he was not interested in being my friend. I bumped into him recently in person and frankly it was a bit awkward as he was with his friends.

We haven't even spoken in like a year :(

Has anyone else experienced extreme regret of rejecting someone months or years later. I hate myself and feel so sad that I never gave him a proper chance. He really tried and he is so sweet :(

We have all felt regret about one thing or another but there is nothing you can do about it now. You live and learn.