Originally Posted by sphyncx
I've know this girl for almost a year, but we have only been dating for about 4 months. Everything is great, nothing is wrong...except myself. I'm better now then i have been with it in the beginning of the relationship but it's still there and i want to null it out. This mostly has to do with other guys talking to her...on her myspace or online...not in person --- expecially if i'm there. I get jelouse and a red light automatically goes off saying that she might be flirting with other guys or trying to get with them, which really isn't the case. i don't get jelouse when i'm there and she is talking to a guy friend or something like that in person...expecially when i'm there as stated above. Personally she's just a nice person and what not and i don't believe that she is flirting. but in my mind it just hits a soft spot.
i've had prior relationships where i have been played and cheated on so...
i dunno, how can i fix this? what's wrong? etc.