I am tha father of an 11 year old girl, I am waiting to have a joint-custody hearing, set on 9-24-09, mother refuses to let me visit with child until then, even though judge at the protective order we had, denied her orders and advised mother to let me continue to see my child as I've been doing before, she has totally ignored the judge and is refusing visitation, I've already filed something called a permente lite visitation form what else can I do? My phone numbers has been blocked out mothers in an attempt to stop all communication, but daughter manages to call sometmes when she get my sister to hook us up on twoway. What can I do legally to see my child now? I don't want to play tug of war, that'ts not good for my child.