I feel good after my breakup. Is that normal?
Good day everyone!
Prior to my previous messages, I was going through a lot of stress and unhappiness with my ex boyfriend. He took me for grated, didn't put me in his priorities even though he said he was... etc. Regardless On Friday when we broke up... I felt good yet very sad... I cried to let the pain out! On Saturday, I received an email from his sister (which I was shocked) saying how sad she is and how she want to be there to help me over come it! That made me feel so good that I know and knew he had made a big mistakes! Anyhow, he didn't told her why we broke up and I decided to tell her a bit! She keeps on telling me that it's temporary and that our path will cross again and we'll be together. Unfortunately it's not what I want anymore! I do not want him in my life! I feel free and without pain! I feel released and I feel like I don't have to explain myself or fight for attention! He hasn't contacted me and I don't care! I mean I know I did my best and I know deep down he is rushing right now but I'm not! I have great things going for me right now! A new job, I'm looking for apt. to move by myself for the first time and I'm enjoying every moment! I thought this weekend would have been horrible but I woke up super happy today and did enjoy my weekend! Is that normal that I don't feel upset, sad, or crying... Deep down after the rush he is going through with his life... He will come and ask me back! But honestly I don't want it! I really don't! Wow I can't believe I'm actually saying this! We had a great relationship and the beginning but I was blind to see the things he wasn't doing where they were needed to be done for a healthy relationship... And now... Maybe later I'll start dating again! Im just waiting a bit since it's fresh but I'm totally over him!
My question is: Will I feel sad later on because I didn't realize it yet? Will I feel horrible? Etc
Or was it really over for me and I'm fine with the ending?
Thank you for your answers!
Have a great day!