I have told him how I like him to finger me and he hits the spots all right and it feels really good but I just want to orgasm really badly and I want to orgasm while he fingers me but I don't know what else to do? I'm up for any suggestionsss :) thanks

How old are you?

I'm 20

Part of what is blocking you is "wanting to orgasm really badly".

Are you able to bring yourself to orgasm?

It does it the same way you would if you are doing it to yourself, you tell him what you want, what you like and tell them how to do it

Relax. If you have been telling him exactly what to do, maybe try letting him explore and you tell him what feels good from there. Sometimes, giving up a little bit of control and allowing some 'unknown' can help.

You definitely need to relax. An orgams will never come (pardon the pun) if y ou constantly worry and wonder about it. Relax. Enjoy the sensations. Don't be concerned about 'getting there' just enjoy how it feels and enjoy being intiment with him. Close your eyes and just live in the moment. Not moments ahead.