So here's the deal, a little more than a year ago I met this girl. Our chemistry was so fricken intense. We started seeing each other, things felt awesome when we were together. If I were to imagine my perfect love, it would be her. We loved the same music (which is underground and hard to find), we balanced each other, we were so attracted to each other mentally, emotionally and physically. She actually felt our connection as strong as I did and I know that because she gave me a ring that her father gave to her mother when they were dating. We were really alike, but different enough to make things interesting.

Anyway it didn't last long only because back then I was really really depressed and lost in my life, and I just freaked out for some reason I guess because I have never felt something that strong before. I said some things I truly regret. We stopped it, and she took her ring back but she told me we could go for coffee or something in the future.

Since then I have been working on myself, trying to be positive and make myself a better person. Not to get her back, but more because I feel I needed to change and I have made so much progress. We had no contact for a long time, and we both went on seeing other people. I saw about 3 people after, 2 of them were somewhat serious. I seriously was over her I didn't even think about her for a while until lately, this past week she's been on my mind and I can't get her out. I texted her, we talked a little bit. I apologized for how I acted, asked her how she was, and asked if she would still want to hang out. She said she was busy with midterms and finding a place to live. Other than that we don't text and haven't really since. Do you think she's thinking about me? Do you think she cares anymore? What do you think and what advice do you have for me? Sorry that it's long :/

It's great that you have worked on yourself and for all the right reasons.

As for your ex I think you let her stay in the past,she seems to have moved on and I think you almost have too.

Some things aren't meant to be but we go on to bigger and better things.

Keep moving on.

You shared something great,and now its over,its been over for quite a while, no point mulling over dry bones.

Good for you for making the self improvements, you're a different person now,perhaps so is she.

Look forwards not backwards.

She's just not that into you. I know this because she isn't calling or texting you. Probably on some level, you know it, too.

It's good that you got yourself in a better place emotionally, and had some closure to be able to apologize for your words.

Here's to new love, hopefully very soon.

Doesn't matter what she is thinking, keep improving yourself and focus on build a life that makes you happy, with friends and activities that you enjoy, because even though she is busy now with her own thing, you never know what the future options and opportunities will be.

You were stuck once, don't get stuck again. Just keep doing your own thing and love every minute.

Improvement on yourself is the best, keep it up. Don't worry about her, everyone relapses on memory lane every once in a while just go with it. I am currently engaged with a lady that I am in love with and last week I was thinking about an ex. Remember everything, focus on the positives, forgive the negatives, and find someone that wants to be with you now!

Good luck,

Javi

I don't think she cares anymore because she would be messaging you since that day. I think you should keep moving ahead. I guess I'm just thinking about it from S.r's point of view. If she read this, you know.

S.R comes to mind doesn't she? She SHOULD!

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S.R comes to mind doesnt she? she SHOULD!

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S.R. Is this someone we're supposed to know?

I wish shed answer but I doubt she'll check these. I hope she gets a good scare and smartens up like she should have years ago..

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i wish shed answer but i doubt she'll check these. i hope she gets a good scare and smartens up like she should have years ago..

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Are you threatening someone that's on this site? Another member?

Nope

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S.R comes to mind doesnt she? she SHOULD!

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Who's S.R??