I have this crush on this boy but I have anxiety and I'm so scared to talk to him he looks at me a lot though and I just cant figure out what to say to him, also he is in my rotc class in my high school.

Are you in any classes with him? How old are you two?

Either get the courage to talk to him or give up on it. You might get shot down... you might find out he likes you. But if you don't get some courage, you are never going to find out. He'll end up dating someone who isn't afraid. Terrifying to you right now? I wouldn't doubt it. BUT you need to get over yourself and your fears if you want to get ahead in life. This is a good place to start. The meek are not going to inherit the earth during their lifetime. The people who take charge will.

And no its NOT going to kill you, you aren't going to die, you might be embarrassed..but you'll get over that in time.

A famous German philosopher said it best...


Friedrich Nietzsche
“What does not kill me makes me stronger.”
(“Was mich nicht umbringt macht mich stärker.”)

You don't have to have a conversation, start with hello