Married for 8 years and is in jeopardy
Hi.
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I've been married for 8 years and the last one had been the most difficult. I think we are at the 7 year crisis. Everything started when she start to work last year. She started to distance her self from me. So I ask her what's was going on with her. She said nothing so I leave it alone. A week after she start getting dress in another room not letting me see her naked our sex life was at the bottom. I started suspecting an affair. I confront her and ask her directly if there was some one els in her life, she didn't said anything so I took it for a yes. We talk and she told me about another guy that was talking to her on the phone and telling her to leave me so he could be with her. I confronted the guy and he said he just wanted a booty call with her. And she listen to him an she told him to never contact her again. So we keep going forgetting that part. But she wanted to have her own space. So I agree I give her space. We got back again after a few weeks. 2 months a go she told me she wanted to leave me with the kids and she wanted to move alone. I ask her why? She explained she needs to be young and be able to go out as she wants. Fine I said go I even help her to find a apartment. Week later she was ready to move out she ask me how much I pay for everything to sustain my family. So I told her then she says to me she is not moving out no more. I told her not to feel petty for me I know how to survive and I'll always make sure that our kids have all they need. She told me she is confuse because she wants to be alone but she's afraid of losing us for good with her stupidity. So I told her I wanted the divorce because I've been patience with her and all this S*&^. She start screaming that that's is not what she wants. Now I'm more confuse. She wan't to be alone and when I finally accept she don't want that.
Any advice will HELP.:confused: