My [27 M] GF [25 F] of 3 years just told me she has problems with sex because of past
My girlfriend and I have been sleeping together since the beginning of our relationship, and recently I've started trying to gently introduce more in the bedroom. She's always had a toy, but I've been trying to introduce more positions and experiences to make things a little more fun.
The other day we started fooling around and she abdruptly stopped me saying she didn't like anything I was doing (same thing I always do), she doesn't like making out, and she doesn't want anything new. She completely shut down and wouldn't say another word to me after this.
The next day she text me saying that she's had "really terrible relationships, including really scary sex" and that "she has a problems with sex because of past relationships"
I'm not sure where to go from here, she won't talk about it, I also now have no idea what she wants in bed (she says normal sex is all she wants). Ideally I'd like for her to heal in some way and open up with me. Should we stop having sex all together for a while? I could suggest her see a therapist but I imagine that not going well.
**tl;dr**: Girlfriend told me she's had relationships involving "really scary sex" which is keeping her from opening up and trying new things with me. Not sure what to do.