My boyfriend often gets angry with me and thinks that I'm not responsible and I don't show care and concern to him. When he flares up at me, I tend to be defensive and can't stop thinking that he has a part to play in whatever he is angry at.after apologising, he wants me to make him "happy" for getting me angry! Other than giving him treats or buying things to bribe him, I can't think of anything else and he's even more frustrated at me for using Money to settle his unhappiness. What should I do?

Find someone else who doesn't play games.

Dump him. You cannot "make" anyone happy. And BRIBING him to be happy?

*scream*

He is the one responsible for his own happiness which should then flow out to you. It sounds like he doesn't think very well of himself, and so, instead, takes that out on you.

If you value yourself and your very Soul, dump him!!

This is ridiculous.

You really feel the need to go through all of this to appease a jerk? Come on now... Find some self respect and tell him to get lost. I can almost guarantee that he is making you feel guilty when you have no reason to... this is a form of abuse/control. Don't accept this behavior and get rid of him.

You can do better.

Tell him to get over himself, and don't allow him to take his anger out on you.

Drop him like a hot potato. That is the only option you have in this situation.