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  • Nov 7, 2019, 02:21 PM
    honeybun35
    Why would a man want to see his ex in a sex video?
    So the guy I have been talking about the married man asked me to send a video of me and the other guy having sex. He's been texting me to see it. I told him that I don't have a video of us having sex. He said I should have it in my stash. I am not sure if he was playing or not but he said it turns him on. My cousin said it was a trap.This is the guy who I had sex with many yrs ago and want to have sex now but we just chat. He is happily married.
  • Nov 7, 2019, 03:53 PM
    talaniman
    He's either joking and cranking you up or is a closet direspectful pervert. Your reply should have been to ask if it would turn his wife on too, and there is another thought that came to mind is he is wacking off to porn as you chat!
  • Nov 7, 2019, 05:55 PM
    honeybun35
    I thought of that but he have a very beautiful wife why would he need to watch any porn.He have the rraal thing.
  • Nov 7, 2019, 06:17 PM
    talaniman
    For the same reason he wants a porn flick of you is my guess.
  • Nov 8, 2019, 07:16 AM
    honeybun35
    huh that's what I just asked not sure of this answer. why would he want porn flick you said same reason but what reason is that. that was the question that I had asked
  • Nov 8, 2019, 08:26 AM
    J_9
    He wants a porn flick because he is unhappy in his marriage. A beautiful wife does not make a happy marriage.
  • Nov 8, 2019, 08:39 AM
    honeybun35
    does that explain why he is able to chat with me all times of the day? I do be curious as to where is she because we can text until we fall asleep. They do have a big house so maybe that's why I guess she could be anywhere in that house.
  • Nov 8, 2019, 09:34 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by honeybun35 View Post
    huh that's what I just asked not sure of this answer. why would he want porn flick you said same reason but what reason is that. that was the question that I had asked

    Even a happily married guy with a beautiful wife can be a pervert that likes porn.
  • Nov 8, 2019, 09:43 AM
    honeybun35
    yea I guess you're right but I didn't see the need though. Even with our conversations. A man is a man though.Is that the reason too for all the conversations?
  • Nov 9, 2019, 04:08 AM
    talaniman
    Your men friends are a strange bunch any way. Makes for some very toxic unhealthhy relationships. That can't be good for any of you.
  • Nov 9, 2019, 05:21 AM
    honeybun35
    Well the other one I was physically seeing .The friend I agree it's a waste because for 5 yrs he's been flirting with me ,sex talking on chat but he's married.We don't hook up at all.He doesn't want see me hook up with no one.
  • Nov 9, 2019, 06:10 AM
    talaniman
    Not his business and you should say so.
  • Nov 9, 2019, 10:00 AM
    honeybun35
    Ok .he act jealous
  • Nov 9, 2019, 10:02 AM
    talaniman
    Does his jealousy give you some sort of cheap thrill or something?
  • Nov 9, 2019, 10:06 AM
    honeybun35
    How it's not doing anything for me

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