Originally Posted by
timmydale
Its so easy for me to look back at it and say whoa what were you thinking for staying through all of it. But I promise you, the borderline is so very talented and skilled at manipulation that you lose yourself in them. I gave up everything. Friends Family for a short while. For what? To be treated like that and convinced I had it coming. Im not a weak man. On the contrary. But somehow, for some reason she used all the kind in me, all the good in me, against me. Its very helpful writing this and discussing this. It keeps me mad, as apposed to feeling sorry for her. Thanks for your words.