I'm a man but my lady is insensitive at times. She feels it's fine to say what's on her mind whenever at any time. Also she can be rude at times. I've told her but she doesn't see anything wrong with some of what she does. She says she would rather say it now then wait. If we are at a restaurant together she has no problem with talking on the phone or e-mailing on the blackberry for minutes at a time while I'm just sitting there. I find that rude. Also during sex once she mentioned other people or how they were more excited. How do you deal with a person like that? I love her and I'm trying to deal with this issue.