My Girlfriend likes "red ink"
I have been going out with my girlfriend for almost two whole years, and we have ups and downs as anyone can imagine.
But one thing that I hate about her is that she razor blades herself.
When we got together, I really liked her and didn't know much about her, but as the days and weeks grew on I saw a secretive side to her, I thought she was seeing someone else too.
And I kept thinking that for a long while.
I would see her each lunchtime and one lunchtime, I left but I stayed near by, and I walked back to see her, as she didn't leave.
I saw her with something in her hand it was a knife, she hid it away.
I then knew that she was self harming.
I didn't like it and I told her that its bad and she should stop.
All through our relationship she has doing it. I got her to stop for about a month.
I have told her I can't take much more of this.
She thinks I don't care about her, I have told her to see a Doctor, and a shrink.
She does not admit that she has a problem, and when she does, like a about a month ago when she posted on this site she admitted she had a problem.
Then she said a few minutes later, "I dont have a problem, I dnt hurt myself"
We keep arguing about loads of things, and Im at the point where I can't take it anymore.
Lastnight she told me that she still wants to do it (cut herself) I said she shouldn't be thinking like that, and then when I got nothing positive from her, I got angry and I said:
"Go and slit your wrists, and die".
Someone please help.
P.S I have read a lot online about self harmers but she's not willing to help herself.