We have been together for almost a year now. Like 3 months ago she started going out a lot with her friends to clubs. I told her I don't mind if she goes out but not every weekend. First weekend on break, she went out Friday, Saturday and Sunday. I take her out when I can cause I have these credict card bills that I want to get rid of. I explained that to her and she said that is not her problem if I can't take her out. Well now we have been on the break but she still calls me everyday and asking me for advised on school problems etc. Even her father told me this week to stand ground and don't let her walk over me.

If she calls you tell her you are on break... that is what she wanted. So, take a break. You call her when you feel like it. Sounds to me like she would rather go out and party than have a relationship. Been there before, on both ends. You are being the responsible one... but you aren't responsible for giving her school advice. She can get that elsewhere. Tell her to ask the doorman for advice on school... that should get her far.

Exacty, don't be a doormat! She made her bed and now she has to lie in it. Don't let her call you, as you deserve better than that. Put her name under "heartless" every time she calls, you will see that. That should make you ignore that call

I know, maybe she wants the cake and eat it too. Tuesday was my birthday and she didn't even make the effort to get me a gift. That really hurt cause on her birthday I went to her house after work with a gift. She said she is broke cause of school but she keeps going out. Then she said her friends pay for everything. I told her she is 30 years old and not 22 to party every weekend. I am starting to get over her already as I see she is not worth it.

What a biyaatch!! Yeah, leave her sorry a$$. She isn't worth it. Way too immature. She will probably end up getting knocked up by some other loser at the club... (no offense man)! You are too good for her.

I know man but is OK I am doing good. Her sister is the same way going out all the time. 2 losers. One of her best friends told her to stop the going out if she wants a relationship. I mean you do that when you are single. I am back to the gym and will go out with my friends. Next time she calls I will tell her to stop calling as you guys said.

Orrrr... you could just be stone cold and change your number! Good luck man... you will be good. Stupid stuff like this happens so we can learn from it.

Hahaha, that's a good idea Kctiger. Maybe I will do that. I will keep in touch with her father cause he always treated me good and gave me advised. He even told me that if she don't change, leave her and get on with my life.

30 years old, broke, and still going to the club/bar can you say loser!

I know, what a loser. I am glad is over. This site help me a lot this week. I am single again and looking forward to have fun.

Yeah, everything that needs to be said has been said here. :eek:

You should take her for a dinner and discuss in a calm environment and ask her to settle down issues.
If she still insist to take a break then pretend that you are going to break the relation. This will lead her to have a final thought over the relation.