Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck
I am sorry you have been with her for 16 years that means you either also have it, or you have used proper protection. And if couples love each other illness does not matter.
As to other issues, sorry no, you will give her the proper share, and you will be paying child support ( as long as the children are yours) in fact a father who thinks they should not pay, I hope they have to pay double, since they are not being fair to thier kids.
So now that no one believed this as your excuse why do you really want a divorce ??