Somehow I think I already know what the answer is. I usually try to help other people the best I can even though I am not an expert. I even keep in contact with a few members here.
I searched on here and I am not sure I read anything the same. There are so many of you/us that suffer when we lose a loved one. I lost one very recently and it packed a wallop because we stopped talking over nothing. Something ridiculous. If I don't get any responses on how to deal with this other than "There is nothing you can do to bring him back.", then let me at least say this; (sorry, punctuation) DO NOT hold a grudge. Do not wait to talk to the person to clear things up. Do not wait for the other person to come to you. Even though the person who passed would not want you to suffer, you may. I know I am and it is very trying. I cannot express clearly right now how awful of a feeling it is. Even though I am offering some advice, I know I sound like a hypocrite because I did not talk to this person for a while and then he suddenly passed very young. If not for anything, thanks for letting me vent and hopefully what I write will reach some of you. If not, this may be deleted and that's OK too. Bless you all!