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  • Mar 19, 2008, 05:21 PM
    exxxxys
    Is this love real?
    I love my boyfriend so much, and he loves me too. He treats me well. Here are points;

    -I can cry in front of him, and he doesn't mind. He asks me why I'm crying and talks to me about it.
    -When I'm sad, he's sad. He says "I hate to you so sad"
    -We got to know each other well before going out
    -We are both very intellectual, and talk about religeon/art/politics/philosophy
    -We really connect..
    -It is both of ours first relationship.
    -He says he loves me just that way I am, and no matter what choices I make he supports me and says this.

    Question is; People keep saying our love will never last because we are 'too young'. I am fifteen and he is seventeen. Is it love?
  • Mar 19, 2008, 05:53 PM
    Skrypt
    Don't mind what other people would say first of all, because it IS your relationship.
    Decide for yourself whether you're in love from what you two have been through and say how you two feel for one another, Nobody else can tell you that you don't or you do love him without you yourself knowing it first.
  • Mar 19, 2008, 05:59 PM
    EtKing
    It really doesn't matter what other people say.
    If you and your partner are in love then that's what counts.
    Don't listen to other people who say its too early to fall in love.
    If your in love then that all that matters.
  • Mar 19, 2008, 06:37 PM
    N0help4u
    I agree don't listen to others they are just going by experience. When people go by their own bad experience and come up with it will not work it is because subconsciously they do not want to believe others can work where they failed.
    He sounds like a keeper! Don't disappoint him and if he is a 'man' of his word he will not disappoint you either. It just might work. Many people marry 'their first love' and live happily ever after
  • Mar 19, 2008, 11:28 PM
    JBeaucaire
    You're question is too simplistic, Exxxys. Love is a feeling, so if you feel it... then it's real. Period.

    Also, people saying "it won't last" (what "it" are they talking about, I wonder), that means nothing. It's an opinion. What they mean ultimately is that since you are young the chances of you two staying together and marrying for life is very low.

    And they're right, the chances are low. But they're not ZERO.

    Love is a feeling, you ignore it when making ultimate choices... ultimate life choices are made because there's TONS of stuff in common other than love.

    So, if your REAL question is "will we be together forever?", hehehe, how do we know? Keep your wits about you, pay attention, chuckle off other peoples opinions and don't stay together if it turns out to be a stupid choice. Pay attention.

    Your list is a good list, it means you're paying attention to things other than love.
  • Mar 20, 2008, 02:34 PM
    R0cKin_t33N
    Well 1st of all, don't litsen to what people say... 2nd of all use your own evaluation and ask yourself "Do I Love Him"... If the answer is yes then you should go and ask him when you think your ready... also remember that this is your first relationship and most people would say there are more fish in the sea.
    But you never know if your first love could be your soul mate.
    .GuD LuCk
  • Feb 6, 2011, 06:41 AM
    icyquiz
    u're never too young to be in love. Dun care what people say. U're having a really great time. Enjoy it!
  • Feb 6, 2011, 07:12 AM
    cdad
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by icyquiz View Post
    u're never too young to be in love. Dun care what ppl say. U're having a really great time. Enjoy it!

    Your posting to a thread that is 3 years old. Please try to pay more attention to the dates on the posts. Another thing is we type in complete sentences here and not chat speak. Thanks for joining AMHD.

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