Is it okay for a 13 year old to be with a 17 year old?
I was wondering if It would be okay for a 13 year old to date a 17 year old.
With no sex, or anything "close" to that. It kind of upsets me at the fact that our ages are so distant. When I'm a freshman in HS, he'll be a freshman in college! When I'm 14, he'll be 18, which would be illegal, right? What if you really, like extremely liked each other. It would really hurt if you couldn't go out. I know my parents and family would totally flip if I were to go out with him... well... I'm guessing. Guys usually have or had sex at age 18.
In NJ, where I live... the legal age is 16. I don't want to do it because, I'm pretty young... like come on! The age difference is really bothering me :/ I know most people would say, you guys are too young, and you have a whole life coming ahead of you. It just sucks. It's only four years, actually 3 1/2... it matters when you're a minor like me.
That whole "age doesn't matter" crap, is total BS. It still sucks... because I'm like a new new new teen, and he's like all... adult-ish... and job.. and blah blah grown up. He doesn't even look his age! Nor does he act like it! It's like he's 14, if he was it would be awesome. I'm just soooo upset about our ages, and I'd like some of your opinions about this. Please try not to give me too many negative comments, my hopes are kind of crushed... I'm hoping there is still hope for us :/
I just want us to be together, and hoping everything will be fine. :[ You always want what you can't have. *sigh* help?
(what if he's like a 14 year old in a 17 year olds body? I know it doesn't change his age, but in my opinion he's not really 17, I don't know, I'm just wishing some how it'll work out.)
Don't tell me not to stress it because, your talken to the wrong person :/
We act the same, it's not like he's so mature, and I'm so immature or whatever. The point is, we're the same...kinda. Get me? He's not like those party alcohol 17 teen year old guy. It's like a geeky 17 who's like 14. Ughhh try to understand haha. >.<
Pluss-------I feel as if when I'm older I'm never going to find another guy like him, this is why I'm like this.
I don't know if we'll last forever, I doubt it... but for now I guess?