I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and we had little problems on our way firstly his dad died because of cancer and then his brother got stabbed to death.he didn't really want to tell me but I found out from his ex.and he told me .but he don't talk to people as much as he did and he acts different. As if he was stuck ,there was no help but he talks to me... also not many people know about his brother and he has adhd which don't help... please help me ! What should I do ? How can I help him ?

How old is your boyfriend? If he's still in school, ask him to speak with the school counselor or a trusted teacher. He may not want to speak to a counselor, but ultimately it's his decision.

He's not one of those how likes to talk with teachers but thanks anyway x