I've never had an orgasm and I really can't imagine what it even feels like to have one. Can anyone explain what orgasm in women feels like and help me determine why I don't have them? I don't understand why sex is so important to most people.

It just feels good, there's no way to describe it. Have you tried to masturbate yourself, yet? Most women experience orgasm the first time by themselves that way. Sex is just an important part of life, it's how babies are made and with the right person, it can be a very enjoyable experience physically and emotionally.

You have to find out what pleases you, what turns you on, by experimenting on your body! Enjoying sex and orgasms doesn't just "happen" out of total repression. Have fantasies about what you like in a partner... feel up your body paying special attention to your breasts as well as your genitals. Just take it a little at a time and try to relax. If you have had religious training, you may be especially frozen.

There are two basic ways that women masturbate themselves to orgasm. One is to clench their legs together and flex their thigh muscles in a rhythmic manner which stimulated the genitals. The other way is to open their legs and use the fingers to stimulate the genital area in a pleasing manner.

You must know that most men don't know how to please a woman so it is up to you to know your body and get what you deserve.

Orgasms for woman who have developed their capabilities are similar to spasmodic pounding in the genital area, bam, bam, bam, bam etc depending on the strength; exquisite pleasure and a kind of relaxing seizure along with vocals.


The best orgasms are when you pair up strong emotional feelings with proper stimulation whether with a partner or solo.


Good Luck!