Originally Posted by
SecretLove
It happened at a good friend’s daughter’s 8th birthday.
The visit before the birthday my friend had talked about her daughter’s hair and how she couldn’t get it to do anything and it always looked messy because the daughter wouldn’t look after it. So I figured I would get her daughter some hair things for her birthday, the daughter and I have a pretty good relationship and I thought maybe if I showed an interest in her hair she might start looking after it a bit better.
I bought her some hair clips with butterflies on them and some funky headbands. I realized this wasn’t much of a gift, so I pulled my old hair straightener out of the cupboard, cleaned it and put it in the bag with the other things. This straightener had been used maybe ten times, it’s got curved plates, variable temperature and is wet-to-straight, it wasn’t cheap and you can still buy it in the shops, so it’s not as though it’s a crappy straightener. I only didn’t use it anymore because I got a new one that had a hotter setting for my think hair.
The birthday comes, we get there and I give the daughter her gift. She goes mental dancing around, she is so excited to get a straightener!
Later on, my friend is telling me about the other gifts her daughter has received. I said I was glad I had brought the straightener for her, that she was so happy about it. My friend then snaps “You didn’t buy HER that straightener, you bought YOURSELF a straightener, TWICE.” I was speechless. The conversation moved on to something else and nothing more was said about it.
It’s still messing with me, was I rude to give the kid a used straightener? Remembering that this kid is 8 and it’s a $100 straightener. Or was my friend being rude?