Comment on joypulv's post
There were no responses when I started mine, so mine is redundant.
Comment on califdadof3's post
You don't think that it is just too much of a coincidence? His addiction, his father's obvious sexual issues, his prior accusations from his own mother, and now his absolute change of mind that he doesn't have a problem are all just a little too much and cause for concern?
Comment on califdadof3's post
I never said one such thing that there are not innocent people. I never said the child SHOULD pay for the act. But a lot of times it is the children who suffer. I have never said I did not want him to see his child, I said I wanted him to get help and admit he has a problem. I want his visitation supervised because of the violence along with the pornographic material in the vicinity of the child. If I was a full blown alcoholic I would pray to God that someone protected my children and not leave me alone with them, but I am not! Oh and by the way, my parents weren't either. In the state of SC the courts clearly state that neither party are to allow the presence of pornographic material near the children. He would sit in the living room watching it on his phone while the kids were sitting not even 5 feet away watching television. He would watch on his phone while sitting in line waiting to pick up my 9 year old with my 5 year old and our 11 month old in the back seat of his truck.
Comment on Fr_Chuck's post
In SC it clearly states that NO PORNOGRAPHIC MATERIAL BE IN THE VICINITY OF CHILDREN. It is not grounds for divorce but it is allowed when discussion of the children are involved. I am not saying that JUST watching porn is the problem, but with him it is an addiction. He doesn't care where he is, who is around, what consequences it will have from his behavior. I have made an appointment with a counselor who specializes in sexual/porn addiction to see if it is just me over-reacting. I am not just trying to be vendictive or get back at him or whatever you want to call it. I as a mother am doing what I feel is in the best interest of my daughter, until a trained person can tell me different. I have asked him to attend the counseling session with me so we can both have a chance to share our opinions and how we feel about the subject but he refuses, so I will go on my own. If they feel I have no reason for concern then so be it, but I have to go with my gut feeling.