I recently broke up with my girlfriend, it was a long distance relationship, she was from the uk I lived in ireland.
We were meeting every 2nd week for the last 6 months! We get on really well together...
When I was back home she would always be flirting with guys on Facebook. It didn't bother me but if I asked about one or two guys she was in touch with before we were a couple (but seeing each other) she would pretend she didn't know them... it would always frustrate her if a certain girl would chat to me on the site though she would not admit it...
I got onto her one day about her deleting her recent activity on Facebook (when you comment on other peoples pages etc) because she would only leave messages up that she sent to me... I asked her why she was doing it and she said because she didn't want anyone to read her messages! So I asked why does she just leave mine up and she said she didn't... I think she was just afraid of seeing her to be a flirt! She got angry and said I was poking at her about this for a while and she decided she wasn't ready for a relationship... she said the relationship was bringin too much jealousy and she wasn't ready for that.
Her previous guy cheated on her and her father cheated on her mother resulting in them being separated! We had a massive argument and I told her she was a slut and took after her father... I later apologised but she said she just wasn't ready for a relationship and that its best we leave things as they are..
I really miss her. She's been like that since I first met her I just wasn't aware of it at first... is she just a flirt? Or am I just being blind? We haven't been in contact in 3wks... I hate feeling like this... I want her back!! I can't tell her that or she will run further away! Should I try clear the air? Help...