Complicated decision making ( career, family, love etc)
I am very confused right now on what to choose?
I am in my mid 20s, facing a big change in career move, relationship, family, house, income etc.
In the last few months,there are the things happened to me:
1. I bought a big house, I love it and I can't rent it out because it needs more work
2. I fell in love with a guy in my current city( my first boyfriend)
3. My company is moving to the other side of the country
4. I got promoted to work in my company's headquarter in Europe, need to sign the contract soon!
I don't know what to do at this point?
Option A: Move to Europe, work as an expat for two years, meet new people, probably start dating new people?
Option B: Stay in my current city, look for other job opportunities, so I can stay in my new house, be with my new boyfriend, and close to my family
Option C: Move with my company to Up north, where in the middle of no where
My boyfriend is still in school, no financial ability to move to Europe with me, I make a lot more money than he is but I want him to finish school here before he moves if he wants. He has strong family tie down here in the South, I don't know for sure if he will move even though he said he will but he is 3 years younger than me( I am 25, he is 22), I just feel he is not mature enough to make such a big decision!
I am doing well at my age, I didn't make mistakes most young people have made, I want to be cautious on this vital decision making and seek all of your experience.!