Does She Really Want to be with me?
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Hello readers, I met this girl at work named Trish. I am 24 and she just turned 18 in June. We first got together some time in mid-July and at first she always called me and the communication was strong. But as time went on I feel like she has moments where she just doesn't want to be bothered or needs some space (not meaning breakup, but less calls and text). She told me that she wasn't use to being with guys like me, who called her or text her everyday throughout the day, and she's more use to once a week and meeting up to hang out. But she also said she thought it was good that I want to talk to her so much and she just has to get use to it. I'm use to the opposite, which means if I am taking a girl seriously to where I am claiming her as my girlfriend, I communicate with her on a regular basis and see her at least twice a week. So there are times when I feel like if I don't call her she won't call me or I will be waiting a while to hear from her and I am always the one reaching out first. At first I thought she just didn't like me but when I do see her and speak with her she does and says things that shows she really cares about me and I really doubt she is cheating. When I addressed the issue (twice) to her, she was really hurt and seemed as though she really didn't know what she was doing wrong. I guess my question is, Am I way in over my head? I am 24 with a 2-year old son whose mother and I are separated, I have a bachelors degree in business and I have experienced more in life overall. She's 18, with no kids and just starting college (off-campus). She said she's never even been in love. So given these circumstances what should I do? I really like her, but I feel like I'm being too serious for her. Should I talk to other women and still keep her on deck and whatever happens happens? Should I break it off? Or should I just stay and see where it goes and if so, how do I control my urges to want more from her, and should I? Is that even possible? Help me out here
What to do about my wild girlfriend and our relationship.
I have this girlfriend who is a little younger than me. She's 18 and Im 23 going on 24. We get along great and enjoy each others company, but we are different. I have no tats, she has 2 and wants to get 2 more. The only piercing I have is in my ears and (besides ears) she has belly button ring and just yesterday, got 2 side ring implants that look like little diamonds on both sides of her stomach. She use to want to be a stripper, but I said I didn't want her to so she decided to not go with that career choice. Bottom line, I'm much less wild (compared to her, conservative), but aside from that we love each other and even talk about one day having a family together. When I'm with her everything seems good, but part of me feels like I'm in a state of denial about how realistic this whole situation is. So I really want to know am I? And If anyone has ever seen a relationship like this, how does it usually turn out? Is there a chance for us to really make it together?
How Do I Stop My Snooping Habits?
I am in a relationship with this girl and I have both her fb and email passwords and I am always checking them looking for something. I know its an invasion of privacy and it is wrong, especially because she never cheated on me, and I know I know "insecurity" but the diagnosis alone doesn't help. Is there a universal way to overcome insecurity and bad obsessive habits such as snooping? I don't want it to ruin my relationship