Go to him or make him come to me?
I met a guy a few weeks ago who asked me out. I thought he was cute and nice so I said yes. We tried to get together a few times but it just never happened. Then we made a date for him to meet up with us to double with my friend and her date. He never showed or called. He finally called the next night to tell me that he had left his phone at home (in another town) and could not call me because my number was in his cell (He had moved two days before our date and was back that weekend of our date to move his things). He apologized and swore that it was not intentional. He is now asking that I come to visit him about an hour away at his new place. My friends think I should make him come to me, but if I do that then who knows when it will be before he can make it back up here because he just started a new job. I want to go on and acutally go out with him so we can see if I want to be spending time on him or if I need to just move on to the next. Any suggestions?