I have a son, currently 9 years old. Last year, when 8, he told us (my wife and me) that he wants to be called a girl, and insisted on wearing girly things. We have complied with all of "her" requests, but are not sure just how far to take this, and we are open to suggestions. I have taken her out to stores to get panties and other girl things like skirts and stockings, etc. However, the ONLY panties she will wear are really sheer or sexy ones, the kinds that her mom and sister love wearing. I have gotten her more conservative panties, but she refuses to wear them and I often find them in the trash. She has sleep overs with boys from her school. She starts at night in frilly nighties, but by morning, she is sleeping totally naked and in the same bed with the boy, who by then is also naked. Where do we go from here? What do we encourage or not encourage? I should mention, I guess, that she is a really beautiful girl, very effeminate in all ways. When taking her out to stores or whatever, people have no idea at all that underneath she has male genitalia. Should we start her on female HRT? What do we do now? Thank you for all serious answers.