How hi my name is tommie from CA how are you today!Now I understand that you guys can't tell me how this court date is going to be on the dot but relax on giving me the worst outcome because I know this is how you work cool.Now me and the mother have been in court 6 month now fighting over our 10 month old daughter now and it seems like it's finely almost over.The last court date we were in the judge gave me the right to be her father and keep my name on her birth papers.So she asked us to try and come to an agreement and so we were sent to the help center from the court and the mother of our child seemed to not like the fact that we would going on a Visitation time sheet.Like the idea going week by week just sucked a--!So because I was trying to by nice and start right I said that we could try and work this out our self.She had said some time I come around to were you live and I could bring her down and she said I could bring her down to your house and you could have her for a few hours because she said that she wants to come to the idea of the baby being with me.So it was said that if anything goes wrong then we would come back and try doing it by putting it on paper.Will every thing went wrong she turned right back into the reasons I took her to court in the first place.So I asked her to come by to the help center where the court asked us to go and she has not answered me or she just push it away.And for some reason I asked her if we had to go back to court for this last meeting on the agreement they asked us to come to and she says we do not have to go when they said I have to be there because I filed the case and she has to be there.Now right now I just moved 3 and a half hour away and I go to her house to see her for 9 hour every other week.The baby is just now stating to eat food at this point and she is still breastfeeding.So what I'm asking what is the best way to try and get over her for the weekends.I was think about 12 to 13 month to start that what do you think?