My boyfriend and I are waiting to have sex of any kind (oral, etc) till we get married. In the past, guys I have been with would get turned on and they would claim to hurt, because they couldn't "relieve" the hardness. I asked my current boyfriend, if he hurt, when this occurred. He said no. Is this normal? Why would some guys experience pain and not others?

Hi There

Doctor Ruth answered this question some time ago, Yes when a man is aroused by the thought of having sex they can sometimes become sore because the sperm is collecting in the prostrate gland. This can be relieved by mastabation.

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Peanuts