Child Support is half of take home pay... how are we supposed to live on that?
My boyfriend's divorce was finalized yesterday. His ex lied to him about when the court date was... so that she could go and do what she wanted to do. She went before the judge and took old income information, which there by raised his child support. He is now paying $1300/mo. For child support, which is half of his pay for the month. His ex does not have a job, gets food stamps, and is getting some kind of student aid for going to school. We believe that she is lying to get more money for her to live on through the government. It seems very unfair that my boyfriend has to work really hard to support HER and he can't even pay his bills.
Any sugesstions? We are already considering going to court to get custody of the kids... but that is going to cost money too! I know that if she took false information about his income to court, we can get that adjusted. But, will she be in trouble for lying to the judge?
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Here's some facts:
This was an uncontested divorce... but she is friend's with the judge. So, when she showed up in court, she said that she wanted to make amendments and the judge was very happy to oblige. I don't know how that is legal..?
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Fact:
She called and told us that she took the old information into court on purpose.
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Fact:
Because the divorce was uncontested, there was no notification of court date. But he still wanted to be there to make sure that all went smoothly.