Son who seems to hate mother?
I have a 27yr old son who just moved back home to try and get on his feet finanially. We let him live in the basement which is completely furnished with a rec room and bedroom. He has a very good job but because of student loans etc. he got himself into a rut. My husband and I pay for everything including his kitty litter and cat food for his pets. The only thing we asked is that he keep the area clean. I gave him 2 weeks to clean it up otherwise I would go down and clean it myself (it was very messy and dirty). I had given him a date when that date came, he had gone to work, I checked the basement, and after 2 hours of cleaning it was back to normal. When he came home from work, he began calling me vulgar names and throwing things at me because he felt I had invaded his privacy. My husband, tried to calm him down but as usual has blamed me for upsetting him. My son recently has become very angry with me and extremely disrespectful, which I have usually laughed off. My husband has just stated to me that he took my part over this issue and to just shut up over it.
At this point, I'm just not sure what to do?