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  • Dec 26, 2011, 08:02 AM
    Macnrae
    My friend is trying to steal my boyfriend
    I've been dating this guy Tristan, and he recently met my friend Aleah, she is always flirting with him, Tristan has told me that he does not like her(which I'm thankful for) but she just doesn't get it, plus she is my friend

    A few days later Tristan told me the day she met him when I went to go get something she kept giving him hugs,which really Pissed me Off,so I confronted her about it and she totally denied it, the thing that really bugs me is that I can't date so Tristan and I have to keep it from our parents and since Aleah knows I have to be friends with her or she will tell

    Help?!
  • Dec 26, 2011, 01:45 PM
    fitos
    When planning a date, get one of his friends to join. Then leave them together for a while so they can meet.

    If they don't fit, keep trying different friends of his until she likes one.

    Don't forget that from her perspective she just "lost" you to him, so it's natural she's confused.
  • Dec 26, 2011, 01:47 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    She is not your friend if she is doing this, a friend does not try to take anothers boyfriend.

    Next sorry you obey your parents, you deserve to lose him by disobeying your parents.
  • Dec 26, 2011, 03:12 PM
    EsmeDoll
    **** THAT WHORE! Find a better friend who has morals,respects you, and has your back.She has you on her blackmail list so you have to act like you don't give a **** and wait until you can date.Plus your parents can't watch your every move .so go out with girlfriend and go him to the park.Think outside the box.
  • Dec 26, 2011, 04:40 PM
    TrueFaith
    Well she isn't your friend if she is doing that

    Once you have asked her to back.
    How old are you guys?

    You sound young.

    These problems are always huge when parents are in the mix

    SO I won't give advice until I find out ages.
    But I will say this listen to your Parents as you live under there roof they pay for your food everything
    Respect that.

    Plus I get the feeling at such a young age this is probable just puppy love
    And will not last.
    I would use this time to get rid of so called friends
    Even if it means losing Young Mr Power Ranger in the Process
  • Dec 26, 2011, 06:16 PM
    talaniman
    If you trust your boyfriend, let him break the bad news to her. He is the one to handle this, NOT you, by telling her he isn't interested in her.

    She is a lousy friend. Keep her out of your business.
  • Dec 26, 2011, 09:09 PM
    Macnrae
    I'm 12 but we love each other and all my friends can see it but my mom can't
  • Dec 27, 2011, 10:11 AM
    talaniman
    Feelings change a lot at 12, 13, 14, and 15, as strong as they are now. Your mom knows this, and she wants to protect you from all the distractions that can hurt you, especially making decisions because of your feelings. She will just be doing her job, out of love, and never forget, your mom was a 12 year old girl way back, a long time ago, so she knows not only what yo are going through, but the obstacles, and distractions you are, and will face.

    Going behind her back or keeping secrets from her instead of talking, may not be wise, and keep you from knowing things even your friends, don't know.
  • Dec 28, 2011, 10:00 PM
    Hahahaha13
    I say ***** slap some since in to her. Works most of the time. Also she clearly not your friend if she is doing this. My best friend did this and I ***** slapped the hell out of her in front of my boyfriend. She still tries but she's scared of me. But it is your option not mine. So good luck with which ever path you choose.

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