My niece is going to turn 3 she use to live with her parents at my parents house with me also, at the time her parents which are my brother and his wife, where more preocupied with there friends and sleeping than the baby, I was the one with the help pf my mother taking care of the little one. Now they are getting a divorce, he does not have a job and she just sleeps all day and works all night while the soon to be 3 year old is spending all her time between babysitters and at her mothers house. Is there anyway that I being the aunt file for custody?