Hi,
I am just starting my career and I have co-workers around me who have 10-15 yrs experience in the field.
I am a silent observer of things around me. I always notice that all my co-workers try to be very friendly before you and on your back. They try to interact and ask about others personal life and when the person is not present, they comment, talk crap about all the things he shared.
Now I do not like that behavior. I believe everyone has there own problems in personal life and workplace should(if possible) try not to add up to those personal problems.
So when my colleagues try to ask me about my personal life I do not talk anything, I try to ignore them because I do not want them to gossip on my personal life.Now, its creating an impression that I am introvert and do not like to hang out.
How to I tackle this situation.