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  • Feb 18, 2007, 04:52 PM
    havingababy
    Putting his name on birth certificate
    I am currently pregnant in Florida. My ex and I split shortly after we found out I was pregnant. I am unsure of whether to put his name in the birth certificate. My question is this...

    If I put him on the birth certificate does that automatically give him rights over my child?

    Can I give the baby his last name even if he refuses to sign the birth certificate when I give birth?
  • Feb 18, 2007, 05:56 PM
    sexybeasty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by havingababy
    I am currently pregnant in Florida. My ex and I split shortly after we found out I was pregnant. I am unsure of whether or not to put his name in the birth certificate. My question is this...

    If I put him on the birth certificate does that automatically give him rights over my child?

    Can I give the baby his last name even if he refuses to sign the birth certificate when I give birth?

    Can you give more information? What are your reasons for wanting to keep the bio father out of the loop? Are they noble reasons or selfish reasons? Was this ex your ex husband or your ex boyfriend? Is there drug abuse involved? Is he an alcoholic?Is he abusive? If you give the whole story, I can better give you advice. Thanks.
  • Feb 18, 2007, 06:15 PM
    ScottGem
    Whether his name is on the certificate or not doesn't change his rights OR responsibilities It just means he may have to go through the courts and a DNA test to prove parentage.

    You don't need his permission or signature on the because. But, he can get sue to get his name off, if a DNA test proves he isn't the father.
  • Feb 18, 2007, 06:48 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    It does not matter from a legal standpoint if you put the father listed on the birth certificate or not, he has all the same legal rights either way, he may have to do a DNA test to prove it, but he can have all the same rights no matter what you list or not.

    And again you can list him as the father, if he is the father, if there is doubt he can ask for a DNA test.

    The name on the birth certificate gives no special or extra rights.
  • Aug 18, 2010, 01:58 PM
    threelittlepeas
    I am 6 mo. Pregnant, I just divorced my husband because he is a deadbeat, he left my and my 1 yr. old son just before I found out I was pregnant again. I can't keep the baby, my sister and her husband are going to adot the baby. My question is, can I put my brother in laws name as the father on birth certificate at the hospital?
  • Aug 18, 2010, 02:42 PM
    cdad

    When did you divorce? Also your ex is the legal father no matter who the bio father is at this point. SO if you just want to create a pack of lies then do it. But the problem is you would be overstepping the law and can get in serious trouble. Facing fines and possible jail time. What does your divorce decree say about the child?

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